Supporting families who have children battling cancer

When children are diagnosed with cancer, it is typical for children’s families to feel overwhelmed and scared. Living with cancer significantly weakens not only the victim, but their loved ones as well; as parents become more occupied in caring for children who have cancer, other aspects of their lives, such as taking care of the house, may not take place as smoothly as they used to.

In order to assist these families, members of the community may feel the urge to serve as a support system to these families. According to Children’s Health, from simply saying “We are here for you and willing to support you no matter what” to being with the family at the hospital as needed, anyone can make a difference.

Every family has unique needs and circumstances, and before taking any action please check with the children’s parents to make sure they approve of your contributions.

There are several organizations dedicated to serving families who have children facing cancer. Donating to organizations such as St. Jude’s Children Hospital or American Childhood Cancer Organization will significantly help those in need and impaired by cancer.

If the children’s parents allow other children to visit their homes, other children can spend quality time with those subject to cancer to boost their mental health and emotional well being. When people receive treatment for cancer, they visit hospitals frequently and may feel isolated from their peers and normal lives. However, if friends visit the patient, the patient will immediately start to smile which will spread positive energy while fighting an uncertain battle.

As someone first catches a glimpse of their prized or favorite belongings, feelings of jubilance and relaxation rush through them. Bringing children with cancer items they value highly will allow children to briefly forget the tension of what is happening and move into their own little happy space. For example, if a little girl who has cancer loves teddy bears, then members of the community can purchase a teddy bear for her and give to her. Children will appreciate these acts because these items may not be available at the hospital environments that they are constantly surrounded in.

Not only is it important to assist the young ones with cancer, but aiding their parents can also be beneficial. Checking in with parents to see if they have any other responsibilities such as taking care of the child with cancer’s siblings or household tasks will make the parents slightly less stressed. Simple tasks such as dropping off other children at their after school activities or making meals for the family will also help out families.

Something that should be avoided when trying to aid families is saying that everything will be alright. These parents are already facing several issues from the financial burden to emotional insecurities. False assurance should not be given at all. Let families know that you are there for them and can support them in any way, shape or form.

An important aspect of serving as a support system is to create a positive environment for the children fighting cancer as well as their parents. Good energy is vital during these times and as members of the community, we can lend a hand to these families while they face cancer.

Sources:

https://curesearch.org/A-to-Z-Guide-Supporting-Families

https://www.childrens.com/health-wellness/how-to-support-parents-of-a-cancer-patient